10 Fascinating Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy Flirt That Is Guaranteed to save you from Rejection

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March 2020

You already know flirting!
In this world of conscious and subconscious activities, mostly all the time you do tasks unconsciously and due to this sometimes you do things that are coming from your mind but not in the preferred amount you want. 
Flirting is one of the greatest used conversations (also openers) by all the men and women to approach whom they admire. But nowadays it has become a tone of speaking. Everybody knows how to flirt, but wait "Do you know how much to flirt?" Or "Do you know you flirt but are unaware of it?" 
Easy, by the below points, you will get to know what's flirt and how to be good at it.

So what's the difference between healthy and unhealthy flirt?

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If you don't know then let's find out about it by using the below points!

Eye Contact
Smiling and laughing
Listening actively
Touching
Compliment
Act smart
Sense while flirting
Conversation starter
Offering something
Curiosity 
Whether these points work well and can find you a date. But if it goes improper and you don't know why then these differences will benefit you…


But are you sure you are using it in a good way? 

Let's check:

1. Eye Contact 

Good One - So, you are in the place where your ages gather around, then you encounter an interesting person with that great body structure looking at you every 30 seconds. If you like him/her then answer with the same eye contact (Married ones please do it at your own big decision because it can make or break someone's life).
Bad One - Looking too much that it looks creepy.

2. Smiling and laughing

Good One - You have a flirting conversation with a young person, laughing at jokes, smiling when getting serious.
Bad One - You can't halt your laugh and grin. That's not gonna work buddy, flirting is fun when both have the same attraction without any distractions.

3. Listening actively

Good One If you listen carefully to the person's words, you can catch some interesting topics to open on your next date or meeting. I tend to flirt sometimes with that person who feels low and always has something to say. Being a conversation starter is a practised thing.
Bad One Just sitting in front and listening continuously. Not even asking questions.

4. Touching 

Good One - An arm hug is good, grabbing hands is flirtatious but effective.
Bad One - Touching without permission and starting physical contact. Don't become an empathyless mammal.

5. Compliment

Good One - This is verbal flirting, a weapon when used, can eliminate or approve you. Say something which is genuine and true about your partner's appearance and nature.
Bad One - Using slang words to express beauty, physics and disability. 

6. Act smart

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Good One - Be you, like a mannered person. For ex: if you got a sign, react with a gentle smile and get to the next step.
Bad One - Not being in the moment and bitching anything, improper gestures of showing the vulgarity.

7.Sense while flirting

Good One - It's our responsibility to keep us safe. That's why you should have a proper sense of understanding someone's intentions while having a conversation or meeting in person.
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Bad One - Giving those signals which can turn on your opposite gender and also giving different vibes that you don't wanna commit.

8. Conversation starter

Good One - Giving an interesting topic to your partner to start a conversation is the best idea to impress their mindset about you.
Bad One - Stalking another person while conversing with your partner and then ignoring eye contact recklessly.

9. Offering something

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Good One - This traditional way of flirting is not always effective but healthy to approach your crush at first sight.
Bad One Offering disturbing gifts, which freaked them out.

10. Curiosity

Good One When you show curiosity about knowing he/she and let some interesting questions arise you're on the track. 
Bad One - Asking too much out of the conversation questions and performing weird expressions.

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What LifeSuggests says is when you flirt it's your responsibility, not to hurt the person whom you are flirting with.
If you are sure and want to connect the person you love then flirt is more than that for you. Pertain your confidence and never push yourself in unhealthy ways.

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  1. Hey guys, I used these differences to understand my mistakes and now everyone likes me more than ever. It helped me...

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