14 Common Mistakes People Make In Life

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How long has it been since you stopped making any mistakes?


I did one yesterday. It's one of my silliest mistakes I do when I feel everything is under control and well. But, I always learn what life suggests and move on to a fresh canvas of life to draw out new ones. 

Some I often love doing and some I always try to ignore for my peace of mind(in fact everyone's).

So it's easy for us to consciously control our mistakes but they are even disturbing and get out of control.

So here I have a list of those common mistakes every individual make in his life:

1. Being overconfident

It is a lack of presence of mind. If you had a little success then it is time to share some chocolates and get back to your work.
People overconfidence in themselves and get in trouble, sometimes in a loss of respect and honour.

2. Overthinking

Overthinking cases are not rare now. Mostly it's a cause if not phasing attention to something and instead getting inside deep in your thoughts. It led you to think about those scenarios which will never occur and you can get into deep anxiety and suffer in your own thoughts.

3. Seeing Things As Black Or White

Either it's good or bad, angel or devil, introvert or extrovert, and so...
There is a colour between black and white that has shades in various forms 'grey'. 
People don't concentrate on what could be good for both.

4. The World Revolves Around You

It's time to face reality. Life is not a movie, to make a move and become a hero in everyone's life. Everyone found their own hero inside them, so stop thinking the world is nothing without you. It simply means that you have a role, responsibilities, a life with different perspectives which you have to balance perfectly.

5. Addicted To A Comfort Zone

Phase 1: I get into something. 
Phase 2: I have been doing this for a long time.
Phase 3: Now I have created opportunities for me to get out of this, but I don't like to get out of here.
Phase 4: I am not going anywhere.
You know the rest.

6. Love Is Everything - Please Don't Leave Me!

Let's be practical here, where is money, house, if there is a house where are your guardians? 
Scenario 1: You are in a relationship, after one year you break up and the next year you are still struggling to move on. 
Scenario 2: You break up maturely and now after a month you move on and have another partner who understands you and makes you happy.
True love exists, but it takes time to grow and make you realize with time only. 

7. Blaming Parents

Only an immature or anxious person does this. Our parents have done their best by giving birth and raising us to be an adult. Now if something goes wrong in life, it is because of the decisions we made in our past.

8. Paying Too Much Attention To Social Media

Youngsters or teenagers like fame in social media. Who doesn't like hearts in pics? And if you strive to gain them daily then, you are addicted to it. If you're scrolling those social media feeds for hours instead of improving your skills or reading some books are just a waste of time. 
Try to limit your social media time.

9. Taking Others Advice And Criticism Seriously

People will pass their words and go. It doesn't matter to them, but for you, it matters and listening to people and taking their advice seriously without comparing to your thoughts is a sign of a lack of self-reliance. 
Haters will criticize you and passers will advise you, only your lovers will accept you as you are.

10. Depending On Parents

Relying on your parents at a younger age is not considerable but when you reach an age where you realize the fellas around you are self-dependent and still your diesel is paid from pocket money, it questions your existence. 
Find your passion and run on your own wheels.

11. Spending Money Reckleing 

Not saving money for the future is bad for your future. Many people victimize themselves by sliding into debts and bank loans. Spending money impulsively for things you just desire is a rough plan. Instead, wait someday to let that desire fade. 
It works well!

12. Not Creating A Network

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I am sorry, but yes, it is necessary for us to create a network. If not professionally, but a community of people of your kind can be a good start.

13. Give Up Easily

Giving up on useless things is different than giving up on everything you do. You will find easy ways, but keep pushing yourself to true ones; you will surprise yourself reaching a certain peak.
Don't give up exercising if you start it, that will be the worst mistake you make.

14. Not Getting Enough Sleep

Lots of gamers, lovers, practitioners, spend their time at night. But there is a huge difference between sleeping at 11 and at 2 at night. 
Those who sleep at 2 and get 8 hours of sleep feeling tired and those who sleep at 11 and wake early feel more energized. 

These mistakes are those which every individual makes in their life. If you think that I missed some points then do share in the comments section. If you are aware of mistakes that you're gonna make but from this post you caught them, share which one it is...

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  1. Just great a reality of life is explained perfectly!
    I wanted u to write on the humanity a self love care n our relation with every one in past or future bcz it's gone a faded with the time as we are this much busy in our own schedule n our own stuffs and at last as we need someone but we find no one with our loneliness bcz we left everything far away in the race of life
    #lovetohumans
    #lovetoanimals
    #Andeverycreatureofnature

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